Comments on: When what I really want to do is just cry

By: VDog

VDog — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:45:41 +0000

XOXO .-= VDog´s last blog ..I Got It Up… =-.

By: lceel

lceel — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 14:09:23 +0000

I think I have been back to this post a half dozen times in the last few days. It’s not the “Big Talk” that’s necessary. It’s “Little Talk”. Lots and lots of Little Talk – all the time. Open lines of communication. Don’t sit on anything. Don’t let HIM sit on anything. Make him talk to you – and make yourself talk to him.

If, in all this conversation, you two find out there’s nothing left to talk about – well, at least then you’ll know, and you won’t be agonizing over it while he sleeps the night away.

More likely, though, is that you both will find out how much you care for and about each other – and that can’t be anything but a good thing.
.-= lceel´s last blog ..Monday Meanders 2-8 =-.

By: amy2boys

amy2boys — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 04:51:01 +0000

I did not read this until now. I hope the weekend helped. It was so good to see you! (SERENITY NOW!) .-= amy2boys´s last blog ..Click =-.

By: Krista

Krista — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 04:13:59 +0000

Can I just join you in the crying? Although my husband is fairly decent about taking some blame for the things that go wrong somehow he is so good with words that I end up feeling like even though he is taking responsibility it’s mostly a problem because I’m the problem. That I’m lazy and don’t appreciate him and don’t know how to change the things that are wrong with me while he’s doing all the changing. And then I do end up sobbing on the couch while he wants to know what he can do to help when all I really need is a good cry. Ugh. Can you tell I’ve done this recently?

By: Stacia

Stacia — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 03:24:30 +0000

Been a while since this post. You OK over there? =< .-= Stacia´s last blog ..Pocket Change =-.

By: Michelle

Michelle — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 03:11:56 +0000

Sorry! I have definitely had those days where one thing leads to another until your frustration finally boils over. I hope you had a relaxing weekend.

By: Anna See

Anna See — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 22:11:54 +0000

i can relate. hugs to you. .-= Anna See´s last blog ..Drink Coffee Do Good Giveaway! =-.

By: Blabbermouse

Blabbermouse — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 18:10:35 +0000

Sending good vibes on the SOYM.

Can so relate to the striving for calm. Ohhhhh can I relate. I am the queen of the ugly scream. My mother in law gave me a book called Every Day We Begin Again, and just the title I keep going back to. Okay, new day, try again. Good luck out there!

By: Fairly Odd Mother

Fairly Odd Mother — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 03:42:32 +0000

That is perhaps what drives me most batty: the feeling that the burden of so much responsibility lies on my shoulders. I'm so sorry you are lying awake dealing with this all. I may borrow your calm mantra but will add "it's ok" to the mix. Hugs to you. .-= Fairly Odd Mother´s last blog ..The lollipop plant miracle that mere mortals can perform =-.

By: texasholly @ June Cleaver Nirvana

texasholly @ June Cleaver Nirvana — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 00:21:17 +0000

Did I write this? .-= texasholly @ June Cleaver Nirvana´s last blog ..Just a typical 25 minutes =-.