Where I’m from

I am from hand-me-down couches,
from newsprint on Silly Putty and a dusty bottle of brandy-colored Chanel No. 5.
I am from dog hair covered rugs where Virginia Slim smoke hung heavy in air, held in place by the dim, lamp light.
I am from the tall pine tree whose sappy branches we climbed, from spiky evergreen bushes, their needles stuck in my bare feet.

I am from opening one gift on Christmas Eve and hot tempers with quick fuses and red flashes,
from Jacqueline Lane and Georgia Emma and Vicki Ann.
I am from the never forgets and the rarely forgives.
From life isn’t fair and he doesn’t know what he’s missing.

I am from kneelers and holy water, RCIA and catechism,
from baptism, first communions and reconciliations, with more questions than answers

I’m from the flat Kansas plains, from Southern plantation owners who became poor Southern sharecroppers, I’m from Denmark and Scotland.
I’m from sugary, tart cranberry ice and pink salad with canned cherry pie filling,
from Coors with pull tabs and two olive martinis
From the man who sold vacuum cleaners in the dust bowl, the burned hands in Vietnam, and the arthritic hands showing me here’s the church, here’s the steeple

I am from cedar chests filled with locks of hair in envelopes, 4th grade report cards, and macaroni and Elmer’s glue artwork.  The pack rat’s proof of worth, memories of smiles in photographic form.

(Found this via Stephanie at Adventures in Babywearing.  I loved hers so much that I decided to write my own.  I hope you’ll play along, too.  The template to make your own can be found here.)

37 Responses to Where I’m from
  1. Emily
    June 23, 2011 | 4:01 pm

    LOVE it! Especially the “newsprint on silly putty” and the “pack rat’s proof of worth.” Definitely reminds me of where I’m from too. I did mine a couple of years ago- here’s a link:
    http://emskyrooney.blogspot.com/2008/05/where-im-from.html

  2. Adventures In Babywearing
    June 23, 2011 | 4:07 pm

    You just totally reminded me of the designer fragrance mini bottles I had- I know Chanel was one of them and maybe Benetton, too? They were so dusty on my brass & glass dressing table.

    Steph
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    • Loukia
      June 24, 2011 | 10:19 am

      What about Exclamation!

  3. Issa
    June 23, 2011 | 4:12 pm

    I always adore these. You learn cool things about people.

  4. Courtney @The Mommy Matters
    June 23, 2011 | 4:40 pm

    I love this. I’ve actually NEVER seen one before, until now. I was sitting here contemplating what I was going to post for tomorrow, and now I know. Thanks for sharing! :)
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    • Jennifer
      June 24, 2011 | 2:51 pm

      I hadn’t seen it before either, but apparently it’s been around for quite a while! Glad I finally found it!

  5. Connie Weiss
    June 23, 2011 | 5:54 pm

    I love things like this that make me dig deep. I’m estranged from my family and it was therapeutic to find some of the nice things to remember instead of all the pain.

    Thank you for this Jennifer.
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    • Jennifer
      June 24, 2011 | 2:55 pm

      You’re welcome. ;)

  6. Heather
    June 24, 2011 | 1:02 am

    Thank you for sharing! I love this!
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  7. Chris Wood
    June 24, 2011 | 6:42 am

    It’s always good to share.

  8. alimartell
    June 24, 2011 | 8:10 am

    I loved this sooo very much.
    I did one too! Thanks for the idea!

  9. Abby
    June 24, 2011 | 8:52 am

    I have my students do these when we talk about culture. EVERYBODY has a culture. Also, I want all of my grandparents descendants to write one of these and put it in a book for christmas. Wouldn’t that be fun?

    • Jennifer
      June 24, 2011 | 2:59 pm

      I had never heard of this before yesterday! I’m so behind, glad to have caught up.

      Now I just need to convince everyone in the family to write one. It WOULD be fun and so cherished.

  10. Loukia
    June 24, 2011 | 9:20 am

    I love reading all these posts today. Trying to write my own now…

  11. Amanda
    June 24, 2011 | 10:21 am

    Loved this! I was not at all surprised when I saw at Trenches of Mommyhood that she’d found it through you.

    I admire the that you shared some of the sharp edges in yours. For me this prompt reminded me of so much good that I often forget, though the anger you touch upon was familiar to me.

    xo
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    • Jennifer
      June 24, 2011 | 3:05 pm

      My first draft was all the soft edges. But the more I thought about it and read and re-read, it just didn’t seem like me.

  12. HaB
    June 24, 2011 | 2:02 pm

    You made my heart smile today. It like you are opening up the memory bank of your mind for us all savor and enjoy!

    Thank you so much for sharing and being part of the inspiration that lead me to actually write my own.
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  13. Cam
    June 24, 2011 | 4:00 pm

    loving this post. great idea.
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  14. Jules
    June 24, 2011 | 4:31 pm

    I like this idea and borrowed it (and gave you credit!). We are having a rough patch with some things and “rememories” was a nice distraction! Thank you for sharing.

  15. Sarahviz
    June 24, 2011 | 10:09 pm

    You have such a way with words! Thanks for the inspiration.
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  16. Lady goo goo gaga
    June 24, 2011 | 11:36 pm

    This is just so perfect….I love it!!!!!

  17. mom-mom-mom
    June 26, 2011 | 9:15 pm

    Ooooh! This is a good one! I am from Old Style and pull tabs…
    Thanks for the inspiration~
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  18. Jenna
    June 27, 2011 | 2:03 pm

    Love this! I’m working on my own, and realizing how little I remember about much of anything!
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  19. Cindy
    June 27, 2011 | 9:19 pm

    What a great post, I love it, love the idea! I am very inspired by this, got to try it out and do something like this even just for fun, I’ve always dream of becoming a poet and this reminded me of the Beat Generation poetry. Thanks for sharing this=)

  20. rebecca simmons
    June 28, 2011 | 11:59 pm

    This was a great idea and a fun exercise. Thanks for sharing!

    http://brownhousenews.blogspot.com/2011/06/where-im-from.html

  21. andrea
    June 30, 2011 | 9:55 pm

    Wow this such a great writing. I am definitely awed on you introduced a glimpse of who you really are and where you are from. I am very much inspired and motivated to create something like this too. Thanks for sharing this one! Nice post by the way.
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  22. Courtney
    July 2, 2011 | 3:59 pm

    just wonderful writing, here – you create such an evocative place with spare language.

  23. steffphani
    July 3, 2011 | 7:50 am

    I never expected that spending my time here is worthy. How did you do that? Wow, thanks for giving me such idea to make one.. :)
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  24. Krista
    July 3, 2011 | 6:54 pm

    So interesting. I have almost none of those memories.
    And thanks for sharing the template. I’ve seen this half a dozen times this week, but never how to do it! Now if I can just be creative myself…

  25. emily
    July 4, 2011 | 1:57 am

    You really have your own style. Your viewers can’t help but linger more on your blog.
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  26. Maria @BOREDmommy
    July 6, 2011 | 12:19 am

    I can’t get enough of this meme – loved reading where you’re from. Thanks so much sharing!
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  27. Kristine Banks
    July 7, 2011 | 4:01 am

    I remember that George Ella Lyons visited my niece’s school a few years ago and she was invited back twice because the children enjoyed the experience so much. I wish I had the ability to summon up words like these.
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  28. magpie
    July 7, 2011 | 10:10 am

    of course. chanel #5. and shalimar. the power of scent.

  29. Ann
    July 8, 2011 | 3:02 pm

    Steph’s inspired mine as well.

    The pack rat’s proof of worth, memories of smiles in photographic form. (Stunning)
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  30. Audra
    July 10, 2011 | 9:19 am

    Hey I found your blog via Babble! I noticed the Cardinal’s hoody in one of your pics and thought oh I wonder if she is in STL? Ted Drewes confirmed it?! I am also here in STL.

    Anyway, I am laughing outloud at your posts and am now off to catch up!

  31. cherryanncola
    July 16, 2011 | 3:39 pm

    awesome!..this is certainly one of a kind and I had to read it twice to just imagine where were you from!!
    ;)
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